The photo of that father and daughter who drowned trying to cross into the United States, really touched me.
That could have been my daughter and I. She was also two when we began life in a single parent family. We would often go to play at the local parks, and would spend time on the banks of creeks and the shores of the lake. I remember when we first went wading into the water and how anxious she was, how she held tightly to me, trusting that I would keep her safe.
With this memory, I can imagine how scared that little girl must have been when they went into the water, and how her father tried to protect her and comfort her, before they were both swept away.
This tragedy brings the crisis at the border home to me, as I can identify with that father and daughter, and as the father of an Addict, I can also identify with the mother, who saw her loved ones struggling against the current, and could do nothing to save them.
Of course, the sorrow and suffering at the border extends far beyond that reedy riverbank. There are many families who have been separated, and many who are being held in (what has been reported to be) deplorable conditions in overcrowded and underfunded detention centers. Sadly, many of those who are suffering are children, who had no choice in the matter, and who have no place to go, even if they could leave these facilities “any time they wanted”.
Right or wrong, at least an adult could be sent back to their country of origin, a small child cannot simply walk out of detention and be sent ‘home’ alone.
And what’s going on now is very wrong…how we are treating these people is not who we want to be as a nation. Especially a nation that claims to hold Christian principles in such high regard.
I am a Christian, and as such, I believe that I am called to follow Jesus’ example, and by doing so, I am continuing his ministry in the world. While I am no expert (I only have a Master of Divinity degree, not a PhD), I believe that the Christ’s simple commandment to “love one another” means that we are to show compassion for all people, even if we disagree with them, even if they do not look like us…even if they do not share our faith.
I do not believe that there is anything ‘Christ-like’ about what is happening at our borders. When Jesus called upon us to show love and compassion to each other, he specified that we show kindness to children, the sick, the poor and…the stranger!
I cannot believe that Jesus would sit idly by while families are being torn apart, whole groups of people are being scapegoated and children forced to sleep on cold floors and not given proper care. Instead, I believe that Jesus would be weeping with us along the banks of the river, mourning for the loss of innocent life.
Angry at the sight of children being mistreated!
There are many who see this as a political issue, or these policies as a deterrent to other immigrants who may want to come to the US illegally; while I agree that our Immigration and Asylum policies need extensive overhaul, I see what is happening now as a humanitarian crisis.
A matter of common human decency.
As a Christian, and as a human being, I am appalled at how the poorest and most desperate among us have been de-humanized. I am also troubled that so many people appear to be okay with what’s going on…either accepting it as an unfortunate result of an illegal action, or simply not caring.
I am even more disturbed that people of faith have not spoken out more strongly against these practices. Those who do are often answered with the call for the immigrants and refugees to simply “go home” or that they should come here legally. This is part of the problem, as many are fleeing from desperate circumstances or even death, and cannot go home, meaning they do not have the time to wait for our broken system to start working.
They need compassion, and a bridge to a new home…instead of wall, either real or figurative.
No matter who you are, how you vote, or what faith you hold onto (even Atheism) our humanity calls upon us to stand up to the dehumanization of a whole population of people, and to say no to putting them in detention. This is a very slippery and steep slope, and has never had a positive result. Whether it’s called an Internment Camp, Concentration Camp, or a Reservation, nothing good has ever come from locking away people based on race or religion.
Instead, we need to call upon all those in power (regardless of politics) to work together to fix what is broken, to reunite families and to provide them with the basic necessities (food, medicine, soap) as well as dignity…while waiting for their day in court.
These changes will not be easy, nor will they be quick, but no matter what side of the aisle we are on, as human beings, we can all agree that change needs to happen…and if we cannot work together the solutions will continue to be elusive.
And it is our ability to work together that truly makes America a great nation..even if that is not easy.
As we seek these answers, we may find ourselves reluctant to work with those we disagree with, for those of us who are Christians, we can remember his command to love one another, and to care for those in need, and we ask ourselves: “What side of the river would Jesus be on?”